Tag Archive: dating

Dec 31

ELIGIBLE =\= DESIRABLE.

Many men have bought into the notion that women (particularly Black women) are struggling to find a man and therefore desperate. They read the articles about the “man shortage” and think something like “I’m (a good man in his own opinion) in demand, so if I drop this Hello/Hi in her inbox/DMs she’ll be happy …

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Oct 09

Kicked out of “Wife School!”

No Wife Certificate for me. On this journey to embrace my Divine Feminine and assist other women in doing the same, I look into a lot of resources for personal development, confident referrals, and partnerships.  I have no problem sharing that while #teamfabulous has a lot of expertise, we don’t know EVERYTHING!  My biggest commitment …

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Apr 06

Ladies & Gentlemen

Regarding the concept of “real women cook” being the same as “real men are chivalrous” FYI the equivalent of being a gentleman (opening doors, helping w/coats, getting the car so she doesn’t have to walk far in heels, offering your seat…) is on par with being “ladylike,” and things like wearing dresses/skirts, crossing your legs …

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Jul 27

The Independent Woman Myth

I would be in these interesting discussions and debates around what’s so with professional educated Black women and marriage and something just didn’t make any sense.  Finally, it clicked. Women say “independent’ and many men hear “I don’t/won’t/can’t play team.”

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Dec 23

Learn to Read the Signs

FOR THE FELLAS I’ve seen this video circulating on Fb and after reading many male responses I’m confused.   LOL what’s so hard to understand, she just wants him to say he WANTS her to come by. Women don’t like feeling like the man is indifferent to us, we want to be desired. She wanted to …

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Feb 08

Taste the Rainbow

BACKSTORY -After the latest episode of Scandal where the main character declines a marriage proposal from a “highly desirable” Black Man this image was posted in a Facebook discussion group (shout out to RINGSIDE) of which I am a member. The storyline of the affair aside, the thread discussion was about how many educated professional …

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Dec 19

Friends with Benefits – doable or NOT

My thoughts on: How To Get All The Benefits And None Of The Drama Of A Friend With Benefits | Madame Noire | Black Women’s Lifestyle Guide | Black Hair | Black Love.  I think if a woman is going to have non-committal sex she has to limit the interactions b/c the greater the frequency …

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Nov 05

Vixen Chronicles – And it’s a bust :-(

I chose not to renew my subscription on Match this month.  It just wasn’t working for me, it also didn’t work for the girlfriend I took on the experiment with LOL.  I’m not sure what parameters they are using to make their suggestions, but most of the guys they sent my way were…interesting to say …

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Sep 10

Online Dating: Milk in My Coffee?

“Could this be me?”-Photo Courtesy of Dreamstime I’m about a month into this online dating thing and it’s . . . interesting.  I started out with the creation of the profile and now on the sorting process.  Combing through emails, winks, and yes even going out on dates.  So far I’ve had 2 meet & …

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Dec 27

Is this what men really think about marriage?

Interesting discussion today about marriage and one gentleman shared candidly about why men don’t want to get married and why they do! Being me I had to comment so what you’ll find below are his points and my responses! Enjoy First Up Anti-Marriage 1. Marriage ends options. Men enjoy variety. Gone is flirting, flings, and …

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