Tag Archive: relationships

Oct 09

Kicked out of “Wife School!”

No Wife Certificate for me. On this journey to embrace my Divine Feminine and assist other women in doing the same, I look into a lot of resources for personal development, confident referrals, and partnerships.  I have no problem sharing that while #teamfabulous has a lot of expertise, we don’t know EVERYTHING!  My biggest commitment …

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Apr 06

Ladies & Gentlemen

Regarding the concept of “real women cook” being the same as “real men are chivalrous” FYI the equivalent of being a gentleman (opening doors, helping w/coats, getting the car so she doesn’t have to walk far in heels, offering your seat…) is on par with being “ladylike,” and things like wearing dresses/skirts, crossing your legs …

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Jul 27

The Independent Woman Myth

I would be in these interesting discussions and debates around what’s so with professional educated Black women and marriage and something just didn’t make any sense.  Finally, it clicked. Women say “independent’ and many men hear “I don’t/won’t/can’t play team.”

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Jul 29

Soulmate Series: The Beginning

Meet your Soulmate Team! We want you to be excited and ready for the upcoming retreat so we’re offering complementary introductory seminars with your lead presenters! This is your manifesting and cultivating love boot camp!   10:00 a – Dr. Teresa Ayers – What language are we speaking again? 11:00 a – Coach Versandra Kennebrew …

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Dec 19

Friends with Benefits – doable or NOT

My thoughts on: How To Get All The Benefits And None Of The Drama Of A Friend With Benefits | Madame Noire | Black Women’s Lifestyle Guide | Black Hair | Black Love.  I think if a woman is going to have non-committal sex she has to limit the interactions b/c the greater the frequency …

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Nov 05

Vixen Chronicles – And it’s a bust :-(

I chose not to renew my subscription on Match this month.  It just wasn’t working for me, it also didn’t work for the girlfriend I took on the experiment with LOL.  I’m not sure what parameters they are using to make their suggestions, but most of the guys they sent my way were…interesting to say …

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Jul 12

Myth Buster – Ladies, Men are NOT here to TAKE CARE OF YOU!

GOSPEL Yep I said it.  Men are not here to provide for and take care of you.  It is not his job to pay for your clothes, shoes, hair, nails, rent or anything else!  I know this goes against many women’s and men’s prevailing thoughts about what men are supposed to do, but I contend …

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Dec 27

Is this what men really think about marriage?

Interesting discussion today about marriage and one gentleman shared candidly about why men don’t want to get married and why they do! Being me I had to comment so what you’ll find below are his points and my responses! Enjoy First Up Anti-Marriage 1. Marriage ends options. Men enjoy variety. Gone is flirting, flings, and …

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Dec 21

Tennis Anyone?

In mixed doubles the teams are comprised of one man and one woman and BOTH have to be strong players to win the championship. In a team sport, its not about you Now I’m not a great tennis player, but I do understand the game.  I’ve been looking for a way to communicate my relationship …

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Nov 14

90 Day Rule

So what’s with this 90 day rule?  Lord people read something in a book and just run with it!   Guess what?  There is no magic timeline for when you should have sex!  Unless your personal spiritual beliefs state that you have to wait until marriage or something, when and if you choose to have …

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