Jul 12

Myth Buster – Ladies, Men are NOT here to TAKE CARE OF YOU!

"A Man is NOT a Financial Plan," Kim Kiyosaki GOSPEL

Yep I said it.  Men are not here to provide for and take care of you.  It is not his job to pay for your clothes, shoes, hair, nails, rent or anything else!  I know this goes against many women’s and men’s prevailing thoughts about what men are supposed to do, but I contend that women are more than capable and even RESPONSIBLE for taking care of their own needs…unless, she is incapacitated by pregnancy or illness or she is in a committed relationship/marriage with a partner who makes more than enough money for both of them and the agree that she doesn’t have to bring in money (and even then she should have some passive income).

My moniker is the Virtuous Vixen and while I am not a total Bible Thumper, my philosophy is firmly rooted in Christian Principles.  So you might say, how can you say that men are not here to take care of women (financially), doesn’t it say so in the Bible?

I want to call your attention to the Bible Verses about the Virtuous Woman .  The woman described in this scripture is quite self-sufficient.  In fact she contributes the household financially, is not running around waiting for her husband to bring home the bacon

She considers a field and buys it;
From her earnings she plants a vineyard. Proverbs 31:16

She makes linen garments and sells them,
And supplies belts to the tradesmen. Proverbs 31:24

This woman is a CONTRIBUTION not a RESPONSIBILITY.   So ladies stop always having your hand out to receive and make sure when you open it you have something in it to give!!  We are their HELPERS not their children.  You are an adult and need to come to the relationship as a whole person.


“I don’t need a man nonsense.”

There is a difference between being independent and being anti-marriage/relationship/man.  When you connect with your complement, TOGETHER you will achieve MORE than either of you can/will do on your own!  You want HELP your HONEY UPGRADE!!!!!

So get it together, handle your money and be ready to HELP you HONEY reach his full potential!

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